“The Illusion of Being in Control is Just That–An Illusion” Posted on October 30, 2015October 30, 2015 by projectwarriorqueen “The illusion of being in control is just that–an illusion.” Neff, Kristin. (2011). Self-Compassion: Stop beating yourself up and leave insecurity behind. New York, NY: Harper Collins. P.73. Share this:TwitterFacebookLike Loading... Related