Hidden Barrier no. 1: Feeling Fundamentally Flawed
“I cannot expand to my full creative genius because something is fundamentally wrong with me.”
This belief tells you to play it safe and stay small. THAT WAY, IF YOU FAIL, AT LEAST YOU FAIL SMALL.
Hidden Barrier no. 2: Disloyalty and Abandonment
I cannot expand to my full success because it would cause me to end up all alone,
be disloyal to my roots, and leave people behind from my past.
Hidden Barrier no. 3: Believing That More Success Brings a Bigger Burden
“I can’t expand to my highest potential because I’d be an even bigger burden than I am now.”
Hidden Barrier no. 4: The Crime of Outshining
“I must not expand to my full success, because if I did I would outshine_________________and make him or her look or feel bad.”
Hendricks, Gay. (2009). The Big Leap: Conquer your hidden fear and take life to the next level. New York, NY: Harper Collins. P. 45-55.